15 Best Free Adult Hookup Apps: Find Casual Dating & NSA Sex

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  • DatingRing
  • April 3, 2023

Hookup apps have become all the rage in recent years and why shouldn’t they be? It certainly beats heading to a bar every Friday night to try to “get lucky.” With best hookup apps you know what people are looking for (some apps are better at asking users for specific details than others—from particular kinks to particular looks) and it’s easy to meet a lot of people in one place. In a bar you’re lucky if you find 100 singles of the sex you’re attracted to. Online you find thousands. Plus, you aren’t restricted to your hometown—you can meet singles one town over, or even on the other side of the country (though that can get complicated!).

Below we’ve listed some of the 15 best free hookup apps available today.

1. AshleyMadison

Yes, this is the site that was hacked and famous people got busted for having affairs, as it’s a site for just that—people looking for something on the side. These days it’s also a site for random hookups and those looking for a polyamorous lifestyle, though there’s still a leaning toward “discreet extramarital affairs.”

If you’re worried about getting hacked—don’t be. The site has undergone many upgrades since that happened. Nothing like getting hacked to make you pay attention to security!

Ashley Madison is a large free hookup site—it has over 17M members in the US alone.

User Interface

Signing up with Ashly Madison is easy—as they still value discretion, the profiles don’t contain too much info. You can even blur out your image with their editing tool if you prefer not to show your face until you make contact with someone.

The app and website are both easy to use—no frills.

If you’re looking for polyamory or an affair, Ashley Madison is one of the best apps out there.

2. AdultFriendFinder

As part of the FriendFinder network, this hookup app is huge. And by huge we mean it has a lot of users. Think over 100M. That’s a lot of people looking for hookups! They call themselves the world’s largest sex and swinger community and they’re right about that—if you’re looking for hookup dating, this is the place to be.

What’s more, there are a lot of active members on AdultFriendFinder. It’s not only a hookup app, it allows you to connect with live cams, write blogs, share videos and so forth—it’s a social network. There are also chat rooms and groups you can join to have conversations, in addition to writing/videoing/calling someone directly.

Members and Signing Up

You will find straight and LGBT+ members using the site, including couples looking for some action.

It’s easy to sign up—takes about five minutes and you have to answer very few questions. However, there’s the option to create a very interesting profile once signed up.

3. Kasual

According to their own description, Kasual turns “dating into a game.”

What does that mean?

It means you get four cards at a time to flip over and you have a 50/50 chance of finding a match in your area when you do so.


Kasual presents itself as a safe hookup dating app, but all they really do is verify your location and approve your photo. It is, on the other hand very anonymous—you can choose a voice profile over a photo profile, or opt to blur your photos if desired.


This hookup app is one of the less popular ones, so chances of finding someone for hookup dating near you is rather slim.

4. SeekingArrangement

This is a site for Sugar Babies looking for Sugar Daddies and vice versa. Modern, well designed and easy to use, it’s a great site. Plus, it has some of the best safety measures out there and verifies every member.

Sugar Dating

The members believe that by clearly defining what you want out of the relationship up front, there are no nasty surprises. Some Sugar Babies are looking for mentors, others for pampering, while some just want to date experienced men. The idea is that the relationship should be mutually beneficial and if desired, no strings attached. You can also find plenty of people looking for threesomes and foursomes.

Excellent Female to Male Ratio

This is one of the few sites where there are a lot more women than men. According to the hookup app itself, they have four Sugar Babies per every Sugar Daddy on the site.

5. Tinder

The app of the century. Swipe right for yes, left for no—who hasn’t tried that?!


Tinder is a very simple and free hookup app—you upload a couple of profile photos and write (an incredibly short) bio. You can also tag interests and link to Instagram—if you want to. You can verify your profile (and choose to only swipe right on those who have). It’s the number one hookup app in the world.

However, many people use Tinder to find serious relationships, even friendship. As a result, it can get frustrating if only looking for hookups. It’s a bit easier if you write in your profile what you’re looking for. That way, you can avoid anyone looking for something else!

6. Down

The difference between Down and Tinder is that Down allows you to swipe no, date, or hookup. In short, people will know what you want right off the bat.

Not the Most Used Hookup App

The other difference is that Tinder has millions of users and Down App has…well, according to them: 7M. Reviewers have had problems finding matches, though the app promises you ten people per day that you can swipe on. And they claim they are growing fast…so you might get lucky!

On the Google Play Store, Down gets 3.8 star out of 5 and on the app store 4.4 out of 5.

7. Hud App

Hud offers a no nonsense hookup app—this is definitively an app dedicated to hookup dating. They boast saying they have over 7M members worldwide, but how many are active and verified is unclear.


Hud offers some great features, such as verified profiles, video chatting and the option to blur your photos if you want to be anonymous until you start chatting with someone. Even if videoing, you can blur your picture. Which is great if you want anonymous video sex.

The app is a lot more popular in the App Store (4.1 out of 5) than it is on Google Play (2.4 out of 5). It’s worth mentioning that it has less than 2,000 reviews on Google Play and more than 100k on the App Store!

8. Pure

Pure is all about, well, pure action! Unlike Tinder, this is not a date for people who want to match and NOT chat.

A Free Hookup App for Instant Hookups

Hookup dating has never been more instant. On Pure, you have one hour after you create a profile to find someone in your local area to hook up with. After that, your profile disintegrates. To get another hookup, you have to create a new profile.

The app isn’t as yet all that popular—but with 40k weekly downloads, it’s growing rapidly and hookup apps that work.

9. WhatsYourPrice

With 50k weekly active members, this is a pretty active site for hookup dating. Launched by the same founder as SeekingArrangement, the idea is that members bid for dates. The bids are always in cash, but what you offer might simply be enough to pay for dinner on the day of the date. Both men and women can bid for dates—you just fill in if you want to be “auctioned off” or make bids when you sign up.

In short, it can be a fun site to join if you want to, quite literally, play the dating game.


Once you fill in your complete profile and upload a photo (that gets approved by the site), you can start bidding, or receiving bids. You can only message someone who has accepted your bid, or who bid on you. You can, however, send winks beforehand to get someone’s attention.

10. Bleep

The difference between Bleep and other hookup apps? The profiles.

Profiles With a Difference

The profiles on Bleep are not the average kind—here a person is introduced using video, text, images, and sound. The full monty, in other words.


The main issue with this threesome app? It’s not a hookup app per se (it’s just about meeting new people and dating in general) and it has, as yet, few users. Interesting concept though, so that user base might just grow!

11. Grindr

Grindr is the no. 1 gay hookup app for the gay community with over 3.3M daily active users—228M messages are sent within the app every day! That’s a lot.


Grindr will approve your photo (and a photo is a must), but they won’t do any kind of email verification, though some members choose to login via Facebook. You do have to divulge your location, as the hookup app works to find members near you.


Profiles can be kept to a minimum but you have the option to list several different sexual preferences, in addition to details about you as a person.

12. Happn

Happn is a great app for those living in the big city—and would like a chance to chat with the person they just crossed paths with. If you ever saw someone you liked on the underground, on the bus, or at a local restaurant but didn’t chat to them because it’s not “the done” thing to do, then this is the app for you.

How Does It Work?

Happn tracks your movements when you allow it to (you can turn it on and off) and alerts you to singles you’re crossing paths with during the day. It will never reveal your exact location to anyone else and members can’t message you unless you like them first and it’s a match (like Tinder).

Unlike Tinder, the Hello function allows you to send a Hello to someone that they can see without first liking you though.

To sign up you have to either sign in via Facebook, or provide a cell number.

13. Her

This is a Tinder-like lesbian hookup and dating app for women in the LGBT+ community. It’s somewhat safer than some apps as it requires you to sign in via Instagram or Facebook, which prevents some, if not all, fake profiles.

An Easy-to-Use Lesbian Hookup App

Her provides a no-frills experience where you swipe right or left to find your matches. You can’t search using search criteria—it simply shows you potential matches in your feed and you swipe right or left.

Her offers a modern and user-friendly interface that’s easy on the eyes.

14. Blendr

Blendr is one of the more popular apps for hookup dating—especially in the UK and US.


Blendr takes verification pretty seriously—if you choose to verify your account, you add your phone number, a photo and then proceed to verify via one of your social accounts.

Meeting Others

Unlike the “swipe” apps, where you are printed matches that you swipe right or left on, Blendr lets you search for members based on criteria. You can also use the Encounter function for a swiping round though!


Profiles on Blendr are pretty intense int hat there’s a lot to fill out if you want to complete the full profile (you dot’ have to). As others are free to rate your profile, you might want to put in some effort!